Adjusting Your Views On Weight Control
It sounds simple enough doesn't it? You burn more calories than you take in in order to lose weight. To gain weight you burn fewer calories than you take in and to maintain weight you balance calories eaten with calories burned. If only weight management were that easy in real life. But it is not. So how do you find out how to lose weight fast?
Obesity On The Rise
Turn on the news or pick up any newspaper and you are bound to see a story on the obesity epidemic. More and more children are getting fatter and fatter, developing heart disease, diabetes and high cholesterol all before they hit adulthood. The predictions for this generation are grim. Experts agree that this will be the first generation in a century that will not outlive their parents. Adults are fat, too. Around one-third of all adults can be considered obese. Clearly there is a problem.
Smacking Ourselves Into Line
It is no secret that being overweight sets you up for a myriad of health problems. We know in our heads that it would be best if we achieved some fat loss. Still, many do not even try. Others try and regain the weight. Some people develop eating disorders and laxative addictions. Why does it not seem to matter that we can die at an earlier age? Part of the answer is that food is more than just something we eat to stay alive.
Giving Up, Getting Fatter
Should we all resign ourselves to being fat, live as long as we can and enjoy it or should we keep up the struggle to be thin? The answer is somewhere in the middle. Before we go on one more diet program with expectations that we will be perfectly able to follow the diet 100%, stop. We are already setting ourselves up for failure and we have not even begun yet. Nobody does anything to the level of perfectly for 100% of the time. Would you expect your best friend to do that? No? Then why do you expect it of yourself?
Re-framing Expectations
What if we re-framed our expectations to something more reasonable? Let's look at the issue from another angle. Percentages. Could you eat healthy foods 50% of all of your meals in a day or a week? What about 60% of meals? 75%? Could you eat healthy for 90% of your meals? What is the highest percentage of meals you think you could reasonably achieve with a minimum of stress and anxiety? Start there. Increase that percentage over time until you are eating healthy 90% of your meals. That means you ultimately have 10% wiggle room built right into your eating plan.
To boost weight loss, approach exercise in the same manner. Would it be possible for you to exercise 10 minutes a day three times a week? Start there and work up to 30 minute sessions five days a week.
Paying Attention To Your Feelings
Negative consequences and that critical little voice in our heads have not worked to help us manage our weight. Let's try something radically different: kindness and understanding towards that part of ourselves that is really afraid of being deprived. Let that part of yourself know that you will take the whole fat burning issue one step at a time and that, while you may not be able to indulge every food whim you have, you will make sure that deprivation does not become part of the plan. Then if you keep that promise, you will have truly recognized how to lose weight fast.
Published August 10th, 2010
Filed in Health
